National Middle Child Day, celebrated on 12th August, is dedicated to recognising and appreciating the unique position of middle children within their families. This day highlights the often-overlooked contributions and experiences of middle-born siblings.
National Middle Child Day was established in the 1980s by Elizabeth Walker. The day was created to give middle children a sense of recognition and to celebrate their often underappreciated role in the family dynamic. Initially celebrated on the second Saturday in August, it has since become widely accepted to observe it on 12th of August.
Middle children often find themselves sandwiched between older and younger siblings, which can lead to feelings of being overlooked or forgotten. Despite this, middle children develop unique traits and skills that can be advantageous in adulthood. They are often seen as peacemakers, and negotiators, and are known for their adaptability and independence. These qualities can make them excellent leaders and team players.
There are various ways to celebrate and honour middle children on this special day:
Middle children often develop a strong sense of empathy and diplomacy, as they navigate their position between older and younger siblings. They learn to be flexible and cooperative, skills that are valuable in both personal and professional settings. Despite the stereotype of the “forgotten” middle child, many middle-borns thrive and achieve great success, often becoming influential leaders and innovators.
National Middle Child Day is an opportunity to celebrate the unique and valuable contributions of middle children. By recognising their strengths and showing appreciation, we can help middle children feel seen and valued within their families. This day serves as a reminder that every child, regardless of birth order, holds a special place in the family.